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Anne Ruthmann, New England Occupation: Photographer Website: Anne Ruthmann Photography About Me: Things that make me happy: old people getting crazy on the dance floor, world travel, hello hugs & goodbye kisses, cultural celebrations, acoustic live music, indie handmade crafts, cinema, environmental protection, diversity, the sound of nature, authenticity, white water rafting, discovering artists, photographing people in love. Things that bore me: bland food, celebrity gossip, negativity, fake anything, waiting in lines, egotism.
About anneruthmann

When I was married in 2003, I was the bride who wanted the big wedding with all the personal touches.  Since I was constrained by budget, I decided that I’d do most of it myself, with the help of friends and family when possible.  Everything meant something special to me, and because I had worked so hard on it, it meant that much more to have it all captured beautifully.  To be honest, I didn’t really set out to become a wedding photographer.  If anything, I wanted to become a wedding planner - as I think many brides do after living through a year of planning their own wedding!  However, fate had different plans for me.

Photography was always something I had done for myself, to create art for my walls, or to capture every little part of my life which has seemed to move too quickly for my memory to capture all on its own.  I had studied art intensely throughout my childhood and learned the technical side of photography through self study and experimentation during high school on a 1979 manual Olympus 35mm handed down to me by my uncle, but I never really had a vision of photography being anything more than something I enjoyed on a selfish level.

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I’ve always enjoyed helping others- so when a bride on the knot said that one of her family members had bailed out on taking photos for her wedding, I figured I’d offer to stand in, thinking I couldn’t really be all that worse than another amateur photographer.  After realizing the gravity of what I had just offered (even though it was her 3rd marriage), I wanted to practice on anyone I could find.  I started becoming more serious about the images I captured at friends’ weddings, and I learned how to work with posing people by asking my friends if they’d be models for me.  I found photography to come surprisingly easy to me, and everyone I shared my work with talked about how much they loved my images, sometimes even more than the professional photographers that they had hired!!  (And I have to be honest when I say that I remember seeing a lot of not-so-great photographers when we were searching for someone for our own wedding!  We definitely got lucky!!)

After photographing my first wedding, I was hooked.  I loved everything about it!!  It was hard work and even with film, there was a lot of time spent behind the computer manipulating images to get the perfect balance of exposure, color, and tone but it was the first time I felt like I was doing something that used all of my creative talents.  My friends shared my work with all of their friends and family members and before I knew it, I could hardly keep up with the demand!

I’ve learned a lot along the way, and I still treat every wedding as if it’s my own- recording it as I would want mine recorded - every little moment, every little detail, every bit of emotion and passion and excitement…  so that it can all be preserved forever.

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One of my goals as a wedding photographer, is to help my brides have the best wedding day possible.  In my eyes, a happy bride is a beautiful bride!!  I love sharing the wisdom I’ve gained along the way about what does and doesn’t work, and what things brides can consider to help their wedding day run smoothly and photograph beautifully.

At this point, I’ve photographed over 100 weddings, and every single one has been different!  I never take wedding traditions for granted, even if I think I know what to expect.  I really love all of the different things that people do to make their wedding day unique and personal- which is why I feel it’s really important to get to know my couples on a personal level before I even start photographing them.  Taking the time to understand couples and their unique qualities first really helps me appreciate the things that are important to them, so that I can fine tune my eye to the things that will ultimately have the most meaning for them.

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Come to think of it, it really wouldn’t even matter if it was a wedding day; it could just be any regular day and I would still love the process of getting to know people personally and photographing them in their daily routine.  It’s such a soulful experience to get to know someone to the point of  falling in love with who they are, and then to turn that love and appreciation into a photo that captures their essence.  I don’t take for granted the responsibility that I have to tell stories through images, and when done well, it’s my biggest challenge and my biggest reward.

On the business and personal side of things, I believe strongly in the following:
- Protecting our natural resources by reducing waste and energy use
- Sharing knowledge and resources in order to help others become successful
- Living a balanced life that reflects my larger priorities and relationships with family and friends (not always easy!!)

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My addictions:
- Starbucks (even though I’m kind of allergic to caffeine!)
- Apple/Mac Products
- Freshly baked bread
- Framboise Lambic (for special occasions)
- Audio Books
- Going to the Movies
- Pad See Ew
- Live Music (anything from opera to acoustic jam)
- Bubble Tea Smoothies
- Traveling the world
- Experiencing other cultures
- Political Comedy
- Optimism

Other places you’ll find me on the web:
Website: http://www.anneruthmann.com
Photography Blog: http://anneruthmann.blogspot.com
Business Blog: http://www.photolovecat.com
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/people/Anne-Ruthmann/38502036
Flickr: http://www.flickr.com/photos/annemarlow

Oh yes, and I have a dog who is ridiculously too cute for her own good…

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27 Responses to “The Making of a Wedding Photographer”

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Miss Hot Cocoa

Yay! I’m so excited you’ll be blogging here. I saw your new green photography package on your blog today, and I think it’s such a great idea. I can’t wait to see what else you come up with!

 
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AliCherri1

OMG your dog IS too cute for words!
Thanks for joining WeddingbeePro and sharing with us :)

 
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Diana

what a beautiful story and beautiful pictures. I love how you have captured the bride and groom surrounded by their love ones.

 
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Mrs. Bee

we’re so happy to have you on board anne! :)

 
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Mrs. Green Tea

love the *fun* in your photos, not to mention the green! ;)

 
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Mrs. Pinot Noir

I love the picnic photo! I second Mrs. GT - your pictures are infused with FUN!

 
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angel swanson

i looved your intro post and can’t wait to see more from you. ;-) you were right — your pup is way too cute for her own good!

 
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Kate Duval

Anne, you’ve sucked me in…you’re an amazing photographer AND storyteller!

 
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Nicole

I love you, Anne! Always so helpful and always evolving…you are the epitome of what wedding photography SHOULD be!

 
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Liene at The Smart Planner

Anne is the best! So glad you have her on board as a blogger.

 
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miss shortcake

welcome to the hive! What kind of dog is your furbaby?

 
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Maggie

For someone who is NOT skilled at getting-to-know-you questions, can you share a list of questions you usually ask couples?

 
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Mrs Toucan

What a great intro post Anne! It’s always fun to see how people get into the business. I’m looking forward to reading more from you! :)

 
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Miss Taffy

Welcome! Your photography is stunning! I’m excited to check out your blog here and on blogspot! :) And Pad See Ew is my favorite!

 
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Mrs. Espresso

Your photography is gorgeous and I love YOU already! And Bubble Tea Smoothies? I’ve never had them but they sound like so much fun!

 
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Anne

Miss Hot Cocoa!! You probably don’t know it - but we kinda met at the airport when you were picking up Leigh and I was waiting for my hubby! Your engagement session with Leigh turned out awesome! So - here’s my official hello!! ;-)

AliCherry1 - thank YOU!!!

Diana - insider story behind that photo- that’s my little sister, and I love her dearly. ;)

Bee - THANK YOU so much for choosing me as a blogger!! I’m so incredibly honored and humbled!!

Mrs Green Tea - I love to drink you in a Bubble Tea smoothie! HA! I love having fun with couples! It’s the best way to relax and be happy! I’ve found that happy people makes for great photos. :D

Mrs Pino Noir - you’re one of my favorite wines too… mmm… velvety goodness…

Angel - She (Misty- the dog) is good at making even the most curmudgeony old man smile. I love her for that.

Kate - you make me blush *^^*

Nicole - I can’t say I don’t try.. ;)

Liene - you are one of the smartest and most direct women out there and I LOVE you for that!! Getting a compliment from you is like winning a Nobel Prize… in my distorted view of the world.

Miss Shortcake - Thank you for the welcome!! I can already see that I’ll be getting sucked in BIG time! I’ve been able to stay away from reading other blogs, but this whole aggregation thing really makes me want to be a bigger part of participating in the overall community. Misty is an Apricot colored Teacup Poodle - she’s about 5 lbs and under a foot tall.

Maggie - that sounds like a great follow up post idea! Basically I want to find out about what they love to do together, if they have any geeky obsessions, a little about how they met and got engaged, as well as some of their guilty pleasures. Basically - I want to know what they are passionate about so that I can find myself wrapped up in the same things.

Mrs. Toucan - Thank YOU!! I had no idea what my intro post should be like, and if I could do it over, I definitely would have put a thank you statement up front, because I’m incredibly grateful to be here. ;)

Miss Taffy - Thank you so much!! mmm.. I’m still searching for an amazing Pad See-Ew in the Boston area, so far nothing has quite done it for me. I’m hopeful though!

Mrs. Espresso - I have to admit that your first bubble tea smoothie experience will be a little… odd… it’s a weird sensation to be chewing caramelized tapioca bubbles while drinking smoothie goodness, but I think if you try it two or three times, you just might become addicted too!! If there are any Thai restaurants around you, you may find a place that serves them. Choose a smoothie flavor you know you’ll love, and the rest is history!

 
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Lilia

Anne, I’m a big fan of your work, and it’s great to see you blogging here on Wedding Bee Pro. Thanks for sharing your story!

 
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Amy

Anne, you are delightful.

 
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Deidre

So beautifully written. Your brides and grooms are some lucky ladies and gents!

 
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Sally

Congratulations on the article, Anne! It is extremely well written and very entertaining. Thanks again for being so open and bringing the rest of us into your world. I wish you the best!

Much love,

Sally

 
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Miss Peep Toe

Ann, I love your style and that you are a Green Photographer!! So fabulous!!

 
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Duane

Wonderful story!!! I enjoy your work and follow it as much as possible. You don’t know how much you have helped me to grow as a photographer. You are my favorite photographer! Keep up the excellent work, you and your husband are very talented!

 
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nicole ladonne

Beautifully told story, by such a beautiful person :) I hope I get to see you again soon!

 
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rachel

haha misty looks awesome!

 
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porter

Congrats Anne!

This is a well deserved position for a wonderful photographer & equally wonderful person…

 
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martin zuckermann

Hello Anne!

Reading you and seeing your story brings some almost exact memories to me, it is comforting to know that someone like you actually got started by chance more than by choice. I also shot and missed until I began to get serious about it. But I obviously have a long road ahead, I still am in dipers when it comes to photography :)

Ya!, very well said, “I treat every wedding as if it were my own”, very wise and I’ve already taken that to heart. This helps my state of mind during my own wedding shoots. Thank you for being such an awesome inspiration to me. Your images do say LOTS, they cry out: LOOK AT ME!”

Thanks for the article and don’t forget us folks who aren’t Canadian or American, but happens to love getting your good advice and humor through these WeddingBee thingis :)

God blesses you,
marTin

 
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Catie R

Hey Anne! Congrats on being a WeddingBee PRO! :) Now I can follow you here and on your blog! Awesome! I love your work and that you run PhotoLoveCat! :)

 


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