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Punam Bean, New York City Vendor: Photographer Website: Punam Bean Photography About Me: Punam Bean is an international destination wedding and portrait photographer based out of New York City. She loves animals, and particularly longs for the companionship of a bulldog, in addition to that of her ever loving Husband. She eats pizza for breakfast every single day, and spends too much money on dresses. In this, her first year of business, she's booked 30 weddings all around the world, in New York City, California, Jamaica, Venezuela and Nigeria. Her images have been described as emotional, whimsical and elegant.
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A Marriage! (Elsewhere): Tiffany and Jared

December 16th, 2008 @ 5:23 pm by Punam Bean

I consider my career to have been built in the short period after Mrs. Tulip posted a few of my images on Weddingbee for the first time. It was in the wake of that blog post that my whole business was built. I booked 15 weddings that week. It was insane. I went from dreaming of being a wedding photographer, to, well, being one. One of those very first weddings that I booked in this wave was with Tiffany and Jared. I think maybe we went from phone call to contract in 30 minutes. First off, they were getting married in Jamaica. And second, and consider this stereotyping if you will, but they are both from my most favorite part of the country. So I had a feeling that this would be a good thing. I had a great feeling that we would get along.

I so love doing destination weddings, because it's an opportunity to really dig in. Be part of a family, but still on the outside. You are privvy to intimate moments. You are right there with them through triumphs and tribulations.

Husbone and I arrived late (well, it felt late) Friday evening. After a long bus ride we arrived at Tensing Pen, which I had only seen pictures of on Flickr and on their website. It certainly looks beautiful, but I think that the images on the website really don't do it justice. And upon our arrival, I could only hope to.

The waters were torrential. Perched on cliffs, woven into coves and spreads of rocky black earth and coral, Hurricane Paloma, though at that time plowing through Cuba, wrenched the ocean into a twisted disarray. It sounded like explosions. It looked really scary:

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That was just one of very many giant tidal waves that tore up the place. At this time, we didn't know about the Hurricane. Husbone and I thought that the choppy waters might have been a fluke. All should be calm tomorrow. The image above was taken from our deck, in a tiny hut with a thatched roof, perched on top of a stone pillar, at the edge of a high cliff. Much like the little hut being overtaken in the above picture. Luckily, it was not a room, but just a place in which to take in the magnificent blue view.

It was not a restful sleep that night, as the constant pounding assured me that we would fall into the sea. We didn't. And so after about 4 on and off hours of rest, we emerged from our tiny hut and made our way to the dining hall for breakfast. Tiffany and Jared and their families were there. It was an intimate affair with 11 guests, including Husbone and I. It turns out that most of them had been evacuated from their rooms. Tiffany's sister’s room had an actual river flowing through it.

Husbone and I shared a sigh of relief that our room was ok, and that everyone got out in time before much was ruined. We went to fetch our laptop from our room after breakfast, and were met with something terrifying.

The heavy wooden doors we had bolted shut the night before had busted from the walls in a shower of splinters around the room. The bed was soaked, the curtains. I left some clothes on the floor, and I found them in a wet pile on the opposite side of the room. And to my absolute horror, my camera bag was a giant puddle of water.

My heart was pounding… I was shaking. I didn't know what to do for a minute. And I grabbed the bag and ran out the door and back to the main lobby area to hesitantly inspect the damage. Everything. was. soaked.

Ok. But working. Ok. Everything was working. lenses were lensing, cameras were camera-ing, and I fretted about salt when everything dried. But to my wonderful relief, everything worked fine in the end. WHEW!!!

In any case, Jared mentioned, “You could use our camera.” I contemplated this for a moment, and then I saw his camera. It was practically as good as mine! Anyway, it was a lot.

So then came the topic of holding a wedding, that had been planned all year long, in a place they did not plan to hold it. I was ready to shoot whatever was happening, but eventually we had to live with the idea of evacuating Tensing Pen, and moving to an all inclusive 45 minutes away. And so we moved. Tiffany and Jared were so amazing. I don't think I would have dealt with the whole situation nearly as well. Worst of all was the prospect of having the wedding at the all inclusive, over by the pool, with half naked onlookers, 45 minutes away from the cliff perch over blue seas in which they had so set their hearts.

The good thing was, that they were already officially married, so at least that was taken care of. We decided to stay at the all inclusive and head back to Tensing Pen in the morning and hope for the best. And we CERTAINLY GOT IT!!

WOW! The next day was SO BEAUTIFUL!!! And the folks at Tensing Pen did an AMAZING job of cleaning up all the damage. Despite some missing roofs of various structures, a water heater that floated away and chunks of the walkways missing, the whole place was pristine, and it was as if there had been no stressful Saturday. And I also would like to mention that they were so patient, helpful and friendly throughout the whole horrible ordeal; they were a great comfort in that uncertain moment. They made a destination wedding miracle!!! And so… without further ado, I would like to tell the rest of the story in pictures:

Tiffany's gorgeous Gucci shoes - in the time I've come to know her, the first thing I came to know is that she always wears amazing shoes.

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The Gown was a gorgeous Alvina Valenta.

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Jared gave Tiffany a beautiful amethyst Tiffany & Co. ring as a wedding gift.

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This was a crazy mushroom growing behind their room!

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Waiting for the cab to go to Tensing Pen, and keeping our fingers crossed.

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And in the middle of all that there was still time for some nice in love time.

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Tiffany's dad found this teeny tiny hermit crab in the sand. Can anyone (who I haven't told) guess which lens I used for this shot, and the ring shot? Hint: it's not a macro!

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Husbone and I held back tears when we saw the pure joy and elation on Tiffany's face. There was a sense of “we did it!”, but more in a “thank goodness I don't have to come back to Jamaica another time to have my wedding!”

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Tibetan prayer flags and fluffy clouds look over the dining table.

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Tiffany and Jared

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I gave Husbone a lesson on long exposures. He's a fast learner.

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16 Responses to “A Marriage! (Elsewhere): Tiffany and Jared”

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Mochacoca

YOOU PICTURES ARE AWESOME BLOSSOM WITH EXTRA AWESOME!!!!

I love that you booked a wedding in Nigeria. I grew up in Lagos!!!

 
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Punam

Wow! That’s amazing! I’m so excited to go there!

 
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flights of fancy

Hi there…I discovered your work recently and I think you’re super talented! Congrats on your success! I actually wrote about you on my blog this morning, then discovered that you are guest blogging here…the planets must be aligned :) Can’t wait to see more!

 
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Miss Peep Toe

That is one crazy story. And one AMAZING wedding!!

 
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...love Maegan

so beautiful! Just gorgeous. Oh, I can’t say enough. STUNNING!

 
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Kristin @ The Treasured Petal (message)  58 posts, Worker bee

awestuck by these images!

 
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mrs candy corn

droooooooooooooooool. i am photo crushing on you hardcore!

 
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Mochacoca

I am like mrs Candy Corn. I am photo crushing on you too. I am still looking at your blog since I commented on your post. Freaking amazing.

 
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Corey

These images are GORGEOUS! I was just at Tensing Pen for a wedding a couple weeks ago! SUCH a gorgeous location. I love the shoe shot! I’m so glad that everything worked out for you in the end, I know we just had a SMALL storm there and I was convinced my hut was going over the cliff ;)

 
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Vanessa - V3 Weddings & Events

I have read this story before on Tiffany’s blog and yet still, it is bone-chilling suspenseful! These photos are so perfect; you can’t even tell there was a storm tearing through there. But in the end, it just ads to the emotion felt from these photos!

 
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Elana

I’ve seen these pictures before (I think on your blog?) but I couldn’t help but look again. So gorgeous. You are an incredible photographer! And what a beautiful wedding, even with the storm.

 
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Sherry

OMG. Mr Ant and I saw that couple at Sunset at the Palms! We were there that very weekend to celebrate our 2 year anniversary (we were married at the Rockhouse), but also had to be evacuated from the cliffs and relocated to the beach area. When I saw that couple, I remember wondering how they could possibly be holding up in that Jamaican heat. A heavy satin dress and a 3-piece suit?! Mr Ant and I wore a linen suit and an airy chiffon dress on our wedding day and we were a big sweaty mess. I have no idea how Tiffany and Jared managed it, but they definitely looked stylish. I’m glad their wedding turned out well and they had such a talented photographer to capture it all.

 
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tiffany

as the lucky girl in these pictures I can say that Punam captured the day perfectly. There was so much emotion that day and seeing each image I can feel exactly how I was feeling at that time.

Her work is truly exceptional.

Sherry - not quite sure how we managed it either! we were dying from that heat but lugging my heavy dress around all day was worth it.

 
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Jessebel

Two things:

1.These pictures are captivating! Lighting is amazing.

2. I’m looking forward to the wedding you will be shooting in Nigeria especially since I’m half.

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  117 posts, Blushing bee

I’m so glad that Weddingbee contributed to your career as a wedding photographer. You’re so talented that all we really did was accelerate the inevitable! :)

 
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Jennifer + Mark: Engaged…Then Married! » Weddingbee PRO » The Wedding Blog

[...] may remember Tiffany and Jared. Well, Jennifer, Tiffany’s sister, and Mark, her man, got engaged just days after Tiffany’s [...]

 


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