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Liesl Clark of Claris Photography has taken some beautiful boudoir photographs for many of our brides. I have always been curious about the process and the end result. I asked Liesl to put together some images to give you an idea of how stunning and simple boudoir photography can be. I also asked her to explain the process from a photographer’s point of view.

Liesl Clark:

In one way or another, boudoir photography has been around for a long time and has been given many names. The idea of taking these sexy and classy pictures before the wedding, either with a bridal related concept or not, and to offer it as a gift to someone you love is unique and wonderful. And while it takes a little bravery, some planning and trust of the photographer, it is well worth the effort.

Planning for a successful boudoir shoot involves a few key factors to help the session run smoothly:

1. It is imperative to choose a photographer you are comfortable with. Having a female photographer can help you (and your significant other) feel more comfortable and ease the initial tension. However, whether male or female, having a professional photographer who has experience is vital. Bringing a friend along may also help calm your nerves.

2. Spend some time looking at pictures in magazines and websites that feature photographs you like. Bring them to the shoot or send them to your photographer to view. This is a good way for you to communicate the style in which you would like him/her to work.

3. Bring as many outfits as you would like to see yourself in. Don’t worry if it seems like too many. Your photographer can help you narrow down the choices and fit the right outfit with the best location. Bring a variety of choices to have a range of styles from fun and flirty to sexy and sultry. You should only bring items you’ve tried on and you know are a good fit - not only in size but that match your personality.

4. Splurge on a good stylist. Good hair and makeup is a very important part of a successful shoot. Some stylists will stay throughout the session to do touch ups or lipstick changes to fit the look of each outfit change. Don’t hesitate to request more or less according to your personal preference.

5. Bring along a playlist or a selection of CD’s of your favorite tunes to get you in the mood. Your photographer should help set the tone by allowing you to play your own music. Ask ahead of time to see if your photographer will provide a sound system or if you should bring your own.

6. Don’t hesitate to have a cocktail or a glass of wine to calm your nerves before the shoot. A good photographer will also help settle your fears, but a little extra help goes a long way if you are nervous.

7. Be realistic about the outcome of your photos. Don’t try to imitate something you saw in a magazine to the point where your true identity is lost. Being yourself and having fun make for the best photos. Let your true personality shine!

8. Communicate openly throughout the photo shoot with your photographer. If you find yourself in an awkward pose or a position that doesn’t fit into your comfort zone - say something! Your photographer should be willing to try something else and move on and not be offended by your input. Remember this is a collaboration between you and your photographer, so your input is helpful and welcomed.

9. Think of the photo shoot as a wonderful, new experience and that the pictures are just the end result. Don’t forget that the journey along the way is equally important and can be very memorable. As you are showing these photos to your significant other later on, they should bring back pleasant memories of the photography experience.

10. Finally, have fun and remember this is one of the most incredible gifts you could ever give your spouse-to-be…the gift of yourself. It doesn’t get any better than that!

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