Here’s another expert’s opinion on music for your reception.
Amy Serrago, of the band Nite-Time in NYC, agrees that if you can afford it, having both the band and a DJ is the best of both worlds!

A live band brings an air of excitement to any event. There is something about watching and listening to live people making music right in front of you that takes the whole experience up a notch, and your wedding is a once in a lifetime event. A professional event band should be able to cover all types of music, but this is an especially great choice if you are into rock, swing, Motown, alternative, and genres generally utilizing live instruments to create their sound. If your fiance proposed to you at a Bruce Springsteen concert, trust me, you’re band people.

However, if you are into club music, hip hop or techno, and you and your fiancé never miss a Saturday night out at the club, then a DJ might be a better fit for you. A great DJ can play his or her turntables like an instrument, and this way you will know exactly what the songs are going to sound like. If you practiced your first dance to the CD for all of those months, you can dance it exactly the same way that night.
A live band costs considerably more than a DJ- we have more people to pay. However, I disagree with the statement that “most bands can’t play from grandma’s era to today’s top hits.” A professional event band can and has to play music from all eras. If you find one that can’t, you should keep looking.
Of course, for the bride that wants it all, you can always hire one of each and have them trade off, or start with band, end with DJ. I find that to be a fun night. We’ve been asked to “DJ” certain songs or sets of songs. We can save people a little money that way too, by letting the musicians go early and then turning on the tunes through our system. We can custom design playlists and music packages for all tastes, styles and almost all budgets.
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I agree that a good band should be able to cover anything you ask for, shy of electronica. Not to toot my own horn, but I wrote most of the band page on the Wiki, and there is some useful info there on how to find a band that suits you. I generally suggest starting with the unions, but the folks I know in wedding bands also put their demo videos on YouTube, so that’s another source.